BE THAT GOOD FRIEND YOU ALWAYS WANT TO HAVE

Be a good friend!!!

Good morning fellow writers and readers

I woke up this morning with lots of disappointments, and I'm so sad writing this post somehow.

Life comes with both positivity and negativity, but I think the most important thing is how you can handle the two when they come in hand. You can't always be assured of being happy at all time, so all one need is to be strong at any given time to handle the different situations that will come.

I have heard a lot of people saying they need good friends, but really don't have what it takes to sustain a good friendship, and that is why I'm bringing this topic here to address, that no matter what, you yourself need to be that good friend too.

The other day I was reading @otshotz post about "being the friend you desire to have", and I was so motivated about it, not just the topic but the post entirely. Everything he said was just the fact, and the stories where so real.

It will be really brilliant for one to think about others too for just ones and not just themselves. I know this day's we all have this saying that we don't care what people say or other people's opinions does not matter in our life's, but the truth is that, you need to care about people you want care from.

Life is involved with a lot of sacrifices, and so you need to sacrifice first in some cases. I can never think the other person needs to sacrifice first all the time.

It is totally fine to be chosen

Back to the word of almost everyone saying they don't really care about other people's opinions on their life's is another big topic on its one. I think the thing there is, you really don't need to care about other people's opinions in the case of knowing what their opinion means. You can't just accept people's bad opinions when you know how it has been with you all these while.

Like I always say "I don't give a damn if you see me has a good or bad person in the case of you not adding anything to my life" only I know my story, so if you think you can come to me and say whatever pleases you is not accepted in my presence.

If I need good people in my life, then I should be ready to be a good person myself. If I think I don't deserve bad people in my life, then I should know they deserve better too. It is something of both ways, and nothing can stop that or else, that friendship will not last, and it will end with full of bad vibes, and negativity. There won't be a good story to tell, and I don't think that is what I want for myself, and no one else wants that for themselves.

If there is one thing I believe in life is the fact that you need to be perfect to be able to preach perfection, and so I have decided to be that good friend every good person will need in their life's.

If I always want to choose my friends then I should think of the other side of it that they themselves will want to choose theirs as well and so what do I do?

I hope you get something benefittable from this post, and thanks for stopping by.

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