But the funny thing is, even with me being like this arrogant, almost introverted person
I've not seen much evidence of you being arrogant. I'd actually not respond well to that and the fact I follow your account means I don't see it. Aloof may be a better word maybe?
So you found the love of your life here? This is intriguing indeed. You've been here since January this year so it's been rather quick work. I think connections and relationships can form quite strongly and maybe due to the separated nature of relationships from behind a keyboard, the safety or comfort of it, people feel the ability to open up more than that might in person?
Awww this literally made my dayy! Excuse me as I go and take a dosage of ego boost! 🤣
Jokes aside though, thanks. I often think I act arrogant because of this introverted personality of mine, but maybe you are right. It's me judging myself, but I appreciate you saying so.
And yeah, I did manage to find love here, as weird it may sound. Although I never was into this virtual dating thing, it worked out cause we live in the same city so. But being separated by a screen had been beneficial for me. It makes talking a lot easier, you know? I started talking thinking that I didn't have anything to lose here. Just one click and I'll be out.
While this same level of thinking does make some people do and say terrible things to each other online, it helped me to get closer to some people. I always take my time getting close to people who I meet in real life, but here, in hive which is essentially an online platform, things were different.
I think it has got to do with finding like minded people. Because I've been on Facebook twitter and other mainstream online platforms as well but none of them ever stuck. Hive is different, and to me it's even a better alternative. A safe place you can say.
And when we humans feel safe, we get comfortable. And getting comfortable led me to all this.
I guess there's no rules around where a person finds connections and we can't often dictate whom we may connect with or not; it just happens.
Living in the same city as that person helps, you can see them, connect in person, and that's important for relationships I think. Some make the long distance thing work though I suppose.
Long distance is a tough tough shit, I'm not gonna lie. And thank fuck I don’t need to go through that. We meet frequently, and thats good for me.
Connections does happen in a weird way, you never know where you’ll find something. Things just happen.