I think many people would prefer to present themselves as never having taken out revenge on others but the reality is that most have or will in their life. I think it's a good learning opportunity also, knowing what it's like, the implications and fallout and all; that's how we know what to do (or not do) next time.
I don't really believe in karma to be honest, I prefer action and am happy to undertake it, rather than leaving things in the hands of something no one has ever actually seen. I think karma is a nice way of people passing away the responsibility for action of their own accord...I'm not that way inclined, I do my own work.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
Thank you for your insights.
I know I won't throw stones or anything like that...the moment has passed, but I can't forgive...and acting accordingly will always be a good challenge against myself.
As for karma, I just translate it as your good deeds will come back to you and your bad ones too...someone who acts bad not to expect good things...it's simple...that's the karma I'm referring to.
The best way to resolve a conflict will always be to face it, only that with time you will know how to react in a more responsible and consistent way with the nature of your actions.
Forgiveness is sometimes difficult to give, I understand completely. People say that it's a necessity to do so but I disagree because not everyone understands the situation. If forgiveness can't be given though, I think it's smart to make peace with the situation and not let it eat one up from the inside out - also not an easy thing to make a reality.