I am so bad with dates that I just completely give up trying to remember them!
Except for my wife's birthday and those anniversaries of course 😅
Other than that, most of those other "important" dates are saved in my calendar so that I don't mess up 😖
I'm pretty good with dates usually, I've got a good memory, but it's the birthday thing that gets in the way because I don't put a lot of importance on my own; I guess I block it out to some degree, generally.
Most people don't make a fuss about it including the person whose birthday it was as mentioned in this post and sometimes I wonder if they're just doing that to be nice. Either way, it's not caused me too many issues over the years.
It's good to hear you remember the important dates. ✅
Well I don't think most will actually make a fuss over not remembering the day, or at least I haven't came across any of my friends that "disown" me for not remembering their birthday 😅
Some people are nutbags and make an issue our of it; I don't think disown was what I was thinking, but some get annoyed and hold on to that for way too long. Those that have done so with me...well, I forgot them altogether because they proved themselves to be idiots.
Well in that case, it is the other way round where you disown them instead! 😅
Better that way, free yourself from the trouble of remembering them in the future!
Exactly!