The Free Spirit and the Arrangement of the Garden

in Always a Flower3 years ago (edited)

These are the flowers from the garden of a pool that I visited a few days ago.

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A little modest and not weeded piece of land with a few flowers - but what's the difference when you are welcomed with flowers, no matter how hard someone tried to arrange and maintain them or not...

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And today I remember my grandmother, who was an exquisite gardener. I remember her delicate flowers, which she arranged in the garden every year or in pots on the window sills.

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But part of the garden was left to my aunt, who planted her flowers in no order, left them to bloom, and they turned into a forest, a bush of flowers - the complete opposite of the order in the part of the garden where the flowers of my grandmother were arranged.

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Let me tell you that my aunt was a dreamer, she always believed and dreamed of crazy "impossible" things, she always "flew in the clouds".

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Her every action was a quest for freedom, and if she could not achieve this physically, she tried to do so in a spiritual way with constant self-improvement and self-awareness in a spiritual way.

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But my grandmother died.

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After everyone retired, my aunt now lives in a house with my mother and father. The garden is now modern - ryegrass for the lawn, small limited alleys with delicate flowers, the work of my mother - a retired teacher.

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There is no longer a flourishing mixture of many kinds of flowers planted in one place, there is no more this wildness, this madness, the manifestation of the free spirit.

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I was abroad for a few years, and when I returned, I could not recognize either the garden or my aunt. She has already become a decent, boring person who goes to bed at night with a handful of pills - against high blood pressure, diabetes, hypertension, depression, insomnia, etc. etc. Nothing of her free spirit is left. None of her "crazy" ideas and views on life. So much so that I can't even talk to her anymore, I can't share anything with her, I have nothing to say to her.

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She's just a different person now. Maybe since they took away her wild garden and arranged her flowers in rows.

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Hive.jpgSoul's Detour is a project started by me years ago when I had a blog about historical and not so popular tourist destinations in Eastern Belgium, West Germany and Luxembourg. Nowadays, this blog no longer exists, but I'm still here - passionate about architecture, art and mysteries and eager to share my discoveries and point of view with you.
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What a wonderful post! I wish you had used a clear picture for the thumbnail, it is the picture that attracts the attention of people on the blockchain. The flower is great, but, that is not what shows. I think it is a worthy read.

A poignant and honest look at life.

Your writing is wonderful.

Thank you for Your attention, @dswigle! 🤗
I could reassure myself by explaining that my thumbnail picture is not clear. But I don't think there is a difference in the thumbnail pictures or photos in general of my last three posts and the previous ones. Neither quality/lack of quality is different. Nor are my previous posts better than my current ones. I have done so far numerous experiments with quality, quantity, thumbnail photo change, etc. and I saw so many things that honestly, I'm tired already. Tired even to want to know what's going on. And I think that was the goal. 😄