A whole lot of things has happened to most humans that will either make us Misjudge or right judge some actions or even people or even the collabo, that is the the both people and actions...
Nkw I'm so confused, I don't know if i should start from the bad part or the good part, cause I dint want to start happy and remember the bad things that had happen most especially in this last year...
Talking about receiving an act of kindness from a person that I never expected such acts from had happened over and over and over again, but I'll just mention a few..
I have this church member that we just recently started bonding as per we Dey the same unit Abi department in the church, a very elegant and sharp and beautiful and independent lady that is obviously older than me, she even has her car, so you can imagine how she must be.
We're in the media unit together and then we learn from ourselves most of the times..
There was a particular Sunday that after service we were still quite busy arranging and fixing one or two things, I was already tired and tired obviously hungry, cause most times I don't eat ok Sunday mornings..
Just after all these feelings, the next thing I heard was
hey Chris I'm hungry, I'm trying to order something to eat, will you eat?and if yes, what will you eat?
Omo ehh, it was like as if I had an answer to my prayers to my hunger, because without a request, in my hungry state, I was fed, it felt so good that someone cared about me, that someone knew that the problem that she's feeling was general and that she could solve our problems and it was solved..
Another time was about me as a young lad after secondary school, I was writing my exams, the WAEC exams, glory to God after the exams, I met someone that we talked deeply and during our conversation he talk about this platform and to that I am grateful, it felt like, so people are still in this live that still cares and wats other to grow as well...
I complained that I loved what he was doing oo, but unfortunately I cannot be doing it because I didn't have a phone to do it as of then and he didn't see that as a problem because just after our conversation, followed him home to offload the whole school stress, and then after that he took e to an M-Chris store and got me a brand new phone...
I had never been that happy like that in a while, it felt like and was also the best year as of that time, I remain grateful to God and to the humble young man..
So now let's talk about the bad part where is the pay painful and bring back some memories that I wish weren't true at all...
Have you been in a situation where you and woke set of people because of one person, you were able to connect with them and then they show you a very nice part of them and then immediately the person that connects you with them leaves, they show you the other side you never thought or believed existed..
So the place I was working for before, I just left because of some things, because of my boss I was able to connect with his brothers and some of his friends...
It was so nice meeting go them, I started to think and walk and work like them as tile grew, I started to get comfortable one way or the other, I learned, I earned and enjoyed most of the times with them...
Then all of a sudden, there was a tragedy, my boss died and just like as is it was the face of my boss that was a vail that they only knew me because my boss was there.
Just like, after he died, everyone was mourning, and unfortunately, I was unnecessarily attacked and it felt like, but I was with you guys all these times, why is it like you all have turned your backs a on me?
It felt like the vail is now gone and that when they see me they dint want to communicate but it's funny because I mean we were so cool until this time...
I didn't expect it, I was thinking of how weed grows his business while they are thinking of how to eliminate me from the group.
And so after all these acts and attitudes, I had to leave..
It felt really bad, I mean his business turned 4 years just last week
But he was not here to see it, his laptop was passworded with the company name will soon be 4
But he didn't see the 4th hear unfortunately...
People can be glitchy and slippery, some will play the safe card so they don't get any blames from every sides...
Let just all be careful of who we call friends because they Dey can make or mar you ...
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It's really profound, when someone lends you a hand at the most critical moment, when we're starving, that's when we see that the person has a hugely kind soul. And how great that you got a cell phone as a gift, sentimental acts are good for feeding our soul, but sometimes a material gift isn't all bad, haha.
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