DO YOU BELIEVE IN LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT? || DOES IT EXIST?

in Hive Learners2 years ago (edited)





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In most of the movies I have watched, there is something called falling in love at first sight. I have never experienced anything like that, and I don’t believe there is anything as such.

So what do I think?

In the video above I shared my thoughts on love at first sight. I also shared my thoughts on:

  • How do you ask a girl out?...

  • When do you know to ask a girl out?

Kindly share your thoughts in the comment section....



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 2 years ago  

This one wey you eye dey like this, have you taken fekomi herbs?
Well inasmuch as love in first sight is hardly possible, there are times people just see people for the first time and sometimes ticks inside of them, but it's rare and you're right, it's mere attraction not love.

Nowadays, I won't totally concur when you say time of a girl is likeness. Some girl fit call you baby, give you time, but Omo, it's actually not likeness.

Some girls like mixed signals, create confusion so them fit they bill you while you'll be giving, nevertheless away from that, it hard to know girls that likes you, unless they make it obvious. If you like people and they don't like you back, don't bother trying, if she wanted to, you'll not have to stress one bit

Oya tipu my comment.

Omoor bro! I have come across girls that call me baby and all that but the main purpose is to cause confusion everywhere. Why so? The last time this happened ehn, me I was pained oh.

Some girls don’t know what they want, and some actually are after the guys money. Some have too numerous guys asking them out but don’t want to settle for one. They like the feel.

 2 years ago  

Fear the ones that calls you baby, omo they're the real danger hahaha.. some of them just enjoy that confusion and you're right, it's so they can make money off you.

 2 years ago  

@josediccus not everyone who calls a guy "baby" is trying to confuse them. It's not always about money. Maybe they genuinely liked you at some point, but something went wrong. What about the girls you call baby too?

 2 years ago  

Omoor bro! I have come across girls that call me baby and all that but the main purpose is to cause confusion everywhere. Why so? The last time this happened ehn, me I was pained oh

Did you not call them baby too?

Okay baby. 😅

 2 years ago  

You still have not answered the question

Basically, I don't.. Depending on my level of relationship with the person.

 2 years ago  

Some girls like mixed signals, create confusion so them fit they bill you while you'll be giving,

😒😏

 2 years ago  

😂😂😂 the book falls and they both try to pick it up and then they bump heads and the love begins 😂😂.

I feel love at first sight is possible though. I'd prefer to term it love at first observation or impression. Beauty or whatever one finds attractive in a person is an impression as well, right? So, as a person who can read people to some extent (I'm usually right 50% of the time 😂), I feel I can meet a person, decide I like them well enough to build something lasting from a first time impression, since love is a choice. Not necessarily the bumping heads movie thingy, but yes the love feeling grows from a conscious follow up effort.

 2 years ago (edited) 

Indirectly, you have fallen in line at first sight before?

 2 years ago  

Not exactly but I believe I'm capable of it

 2 years ago  

Love at first sight exists, I'm even a living testimony.
When I saw my wife then, I fell in love at the first sight, I started disturbing her that she was my wife. She laughed and thought I was joking till everything turned to reality.

You have some valid points in your video too, love, at first, sight does not exist to some people.

How do you ask a girl out?
Don't beat around the bush; just state clearly that you want to be in a relationship with her. Try to demonstrate your need for her in your life.
The feeling might later be mutual.

When do you know to ask a girl out

Whenever there is already intimacy and there is a little bonding , you can shoot your shot ,don't waste time

Omoor. You had to go disturb her before she agrees. Omoor.

Me no get the time to dey pursue woman up and down oh.

If I meet a girl and I like her, yh I would tell her what I want definitely before I get friend zoned

 2 years ago  

Then you will spend money to gain her attention, you know girls love guys that spend .so if you spend very well, she will give you green light

Seriously I dont believe in that because I call it lost at first sight,I haven't met with the person before ,so for me it is no, thanks

This is actually a topic for serious debate. For all I know, love is not established in a vacuum. It builds on something. By implication, something must attract a man to a lady and vice versa. Thus, we can actually say there is love at first sight in the sense that at that time something triggered the likeness which later became love that lasts for a life time or even a short while.
Baba @starstrings01 u get person wey u dey eye?😅😅😅 E fit b love o😋😋
Nice delivery anyway

Lol 😂. You go soon sabi weytin dey sup my brother. Make I no clear am now.

No wahala

 2 years ago  

I do believe in love at first sight but the truth is not all of the ones we see are truly love at first sight but yes I know it exists, it has happened before and it will still happen again.

When a guy should ask a girl out is when he is ready to face heartbreak, yes if he is not ready I will advise you don't ask any girl out. The truth is you will hardly see a girl that will accept you immediately you ask her out except if course you have built something with her else it might just be a temporary acceptance for one benefit or another.

For me when I know I love a guy, yes I do like to give him my time even when I know there are other important things to use that time for and also I like knowing personal things about the guy too.

But in all, I'm just someone that likes knowing about people normally but not all the time sha but most times I do confuse myself sometimes sef to really tell whether or not I love a guy so I mostly try to hide my feelings but if it still prevails then I know I love that guy.

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You were giving us sexy eyes oo, do you know she will be seeing the video or what 🙄😁?

Do you know it was she that was recording the video?

 2 years ago  

Oh my!! I Gerrit now, hehehe. Oma you tried oo, no wonder you were just smiling 😅😅.

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 2 years ago  

The way you and josedicuss used to hammer on girls and money being 5&6 eehhh, you both should already be used to it by now. 😁

 2 years ago  

@iskawrites the matter tire me

 2 years ago  

Very awesome point you made there @starstrings01. There's nothing called love at first sight. Many had mistaken physical attraction to love. Though in some cases, physical attraction may be one of the element of love. Though many at times this attraction is born out of lust. Great input there.