My Dear brother ! The expression of your thoughts about charity is particularly well explained by you with some incidents of your own life. Believe me, it felt like I drowned in it. First of all, you mentioned the Prime Minister's dam fund, which has no name and sign yet, and no one is going to ask what happened to all the money that was collected from the people in different ways.
And the story about the box, my own personal opinion about this is also similar to yours because 6 years ago a friend of mine who is a representative of a welfare trust placed a box in my shop and advised me. That you have to contribute 5% of your earnings in it daily and you have to contribute money in it from your customers as well. I initially did something like this but then one day when I asked him where does your trust use this money, he had no clear answer to my question.So I thought it better to avoid it.
And as far as I have understood your point and am satisfied with it, charity is the best which is done to help someone in need. "It is better to give charity that if it is given with the right hand, the left hand does not know about it."
Get used to it, I like drowning people in my writing. :)
At least I am asking.
Thanks for sharing your box story too. I appreciate you took the time to share.
It's more about how centralization corrupts charities.