One thing I like about you is how you deliver beautiful content daily and so inspiring which speaks of things happening every day among humans.
One thing we should always have at the back of our minds is that “no one is to be trusted ”. You would think some people actually love you, but no! They pretend and once they know a little secret about you, they feel envious and would try to stop you.
My big sis would always tell me not to reveal my plan to anyone. She has a simple life that she only discloses things to her two siblings (I and my younger sister) because she knows and trust us. We all believe disclosing our plans and goals to people, they might not like it because they aren't there yet and so, they start to get jealous and plan against you.
Let me share my story;
If I had known, I wouldn't have shared my earnings to my friends. They knew I blog on different platforms and many times when I introduce them here, and reveal how much I make daily and weekly, they thought I had money and so, they would always ask and bill me to get things for them. I was a fool spending, taking them out and they never spend on me. One time, one of them asked for a loan to start a little business, I told her I don't have and sincerely, I didn't have then. That week, my sister sent me some money which I asked from her. This friend saw me getting a cabinet for myself and ever since then, I saw she changed. A few days later, she told me why she had been reacting that way and she made a statement I will never forget. She said;
"If I were to be a bad friend, I would have done something bad to you"
Ever since then, I shut my mouth and stop revealing my plans and earnings to people.
To them, I feel proud but I never acted in such a way. I had to explain how I later got the money to her.
Some people would always have you in mind to hurt you once they know something about you, especially your secret.
So, keep your plans and goals to yourself until you make it. Only show your results.
I don't know what to say than thank you very much.. the thing is I try to be attentive and pick lessons of what happens around me.
Omo.. your friends don carry big woman eye dey look you oh. Chai.. have you tried bringing anyone of them to hive?..
You learnt a lesson from the statement made by your friend. I don't know why she thinks like that. I feel it's because she has some sort of entitlement feeling as she is your friend.
Glad she did nothing to you.
I did but their problems are;
They don't like pressing phone like I do... I don't see this as an excuse though since you want to be making money 😅😅
They want quick money that they will start saving and spending. They are these kind of people who aren't consistent and would give up if they don't earn especially when they are just starting.
They don't buy data on their phones. These are the types who aren't always online on Whatsapp, and only show up when they sub 😂😂😂
All these are what I have observed in them and I see that I am only wasting my time bringing them onboard because I might regret ever mentioning it to them.
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Thank you so much. I am very glad seeing this 😍💕💕