Hello @gwajnberg

Look, I read your entire post. I am telling you this from my own experience.
We cannot forget in our entire life what our parents have done for us. The sacrifices they made for us, the wishes they left for us. There is a lot that our parents have done for us.
Look friend, whatever the parents have done, the children should not be punished for it. If any untoward incident has happened to the parents then the children should not get involved with it. I enjoyed reading your post very much. Thank you.