My Dream Profession Was Just A Dream

in Hive Learnerslast year

My dream profession was just a dream
In a typical Nigerian home, before you graduate your primary school, you should've at least thought of something you want to be in the future or your parents must have already told you what they want you to be in the future.
This is not a joke and as funny as it sounds, my parents and relatives had already told me to become so many different things and some even said they saw visions about it.

I guess we all had that stupid dream of wanting to be a superhero, so we could save the whole world hahaha, you get older and figure out oh! You need an actual job to survive hahaha

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The funny thing about public universities in Nigeria is what you want isn't always what you get. You may apply for Nursing and end up getting fisheries hahaha, that's a true story tho and it's my story. After a year of preparing for an exam, and having high hopes to get into school, only to find out you were given a course different from what you imagined. I guess many people would agree with me, that it's disappointing.

Now here's a trip down the so many things I wanted to be

My dream profession at first was to be a banker, I've always admired how they dressed and how they worked and got to associate with customers every day.
When I was in Junior secondary school I was so into creams, I would recommend a cream or lotion for any skin condition For someone, and believe me it would work wonders, so yeah everyone around me concluded I should be a dermatologist because why else would I just have a gift like that hahaha...

Fast forward to what my dad wanted me to be in the future. He said onumeya you should be a Police Officer and secure a big rank at that. My dad had always been a fan of people in uniforms, and he would make jest of how big I was, saying I'm not big for nothing. Well, my mum would ship for anything I told her I wanted to be in the future, all she wanted was for her kids to be successful.

I know you're wondering how I finally ended up choosing Nursing after so many visions about my future hahaha...

We have to go far back in time in 2015 from how it all started.

Almost all my relatives saw a vision of my future but they were no pastors so I just brushed it off. Not until I and my family went to a church and the pastor saw a vision of me wearing a lab coat and also operating on a patient and saw me coming out of the operation room in style hihihi. Believe me my family and everyone around we're so happy for me and I was also happy that I would be a surgeon. And all I could think of was, finally, a woman ordained by God had seen what God wanted me to be in the future, what could go wrong, I mean that's what God wants for me so I must do it. I was excited yet not so excited because I had to switch from Arts to Science which wasn't a big deal for me. After all, that was just my first term in senior year.
I switched to science and boy I was soaring like an eagle(not really, it was very tough but I soared). Not surprisingly, it's very expensive to study any medical course, especially medicine. You would have to break the bank and your head to be able to study a course like that. I looked at the financial aspect of it and figured it wouldn't be a good idea for me to pursue such an expensive course with a low income.
I was no longer interested in being a banker again so I had to look for a course that would still give me the privilege of working with a doctor, yet not too expensive, and Nursing was it.
I fell in love with nursing and started building my mind towards it. I applied for Nursing Science at the university hoping to get what I applied for, only for me to get fisheries, I was depressed for months because I had to wait for another year before I could apply to school again, which was very sad and draining.

Fast forward to our present day, I'm not in school yet but I still want to pursue my career in Nursing, so I'll be applying next year again

Thanks for stopping by ❤

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Oh, I've faced a similar disappointment so I can totally relate to how you feel and how disheartening it must have been for you. However, I admire the fact that you're choosing to remain positive. Believe me, it's evident to see the hope emanating from you in this post. I wish you all the best @meyateingi 🌺

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Thank you so much❤

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As long as you still have time and still have life, chances are always there. Keep pushing and one day you will reach your dream.

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As long as there's life there's hope. Thank you for your kind words🤗❤

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Our parents and relative will always want us to be what they love, but we can always develop out career as ww grow older, because we are old enough to know what is better and best for us..

Well, Nigeria university will not always give you what you want in some case, but miraculously I was able to get mine which Is food scientist. Ans I hope you'll get what you inspire for in your next application.. good luck to you..

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Exactly, the older we get the more we're able to make better decisions for ourselves.
I hope so too... Thanks for stopping by Mary

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Fisheries? Ah! I don't understand 🤔 I think you should've been given a chance to choose, if your score is not okay for nursing...

Well, just like you've said, parents would always have this one profession they would love their children to venture in as they grow. They would try to talk you into and sometimes beat your desired profession with theirs.
Hopefully next year you would get admitted into the nursing school of your choice, if you prepare better than the last exam you took.

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The funny thing was my score was enough for medical laboratory but no, they gave me fisheries instead.
Yeah I hope so too

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Well.... dreaming is one thing, actualizing them is another. Since you are still positive about what you want to do, actualizing those dreams despite the delay is not gonna be a problem.

It's good you have a dream of yours. It's no doubt our parents wants the best for us but just like you we sometimes need to chase our own dreams. Your being positive is going to lead you to your desired destination

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Amen!!
Thank you❤

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That's Nigeria for you. Hopefully you get into Nursing, I'm sure you'll do greatly in it

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Thank you🤗