I have been in this position countless times. (I mean the good guy mistake stuff)

Right now I'm in the position where I find out someone has always been in love with me (three ladies actually) one since 2018, another since 2020 and the last one almost a year ago.

But It's funny I never even noticed all the attention seeking tactics. One turned me into an enemy when she finally expressed her feelings and I told her I never saw her in such light. Yet she still jumps on my calls and try to hang around, probably with the intention that I will change.

Now I'm seeing myself as a bad guy 😂