Yo! My love.❤️
I don’t think anyone would intentionally want to be a scapegoats so people would learn lessons from their lives. They just find themselves in that situation. I'm sure if they had the powers, they wouldn't want to be in that situation.
Your points are valid, love. Out of all these reasons, the one I completely agree with is that victims are sometimes over-dependent. They are stuck with bad people because they don’t have anyone else to turn to. Let us use a husband and his wife as a case study. The husband is the breadwinner while the wife is unemployed and has no other person- no body at all to turn to. Do you think she would leave him even if he did horrible things to her?
Eii! Some people chose to be scapegoats oo. 🤣🤣🤣 You know it doesn’t have to be for really bad things only right? Someone might just choose to go to Mount Everest and climb it even though he is not well trained.
But yeah, most people don’t like being the scapegoat especially when they know what is at stake.
As for a lady like that, most times, she might really not have anyone to run to but then, this is where she belongs a lesson for others to learn how important it is to be independent to an extent before getting married and also making good connections.
Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment, my love. 🤭