You are viewing a single comment's thread from:

RE: Toxicity Is Frustrating!!!

in Hive Learners2 days ago

Or probably they've been bewitched by the partner.

It's the poor Lexus for me but come to think of it, the Lexus is an accomplice, always leading him to the toxic girl.

It's unfortunate and yet fortunate your friend learned his lesson though in a hard way. I was once called a devil by a lady for advising her but years later, she popped up in my DM to appreciate me.

Plus, toxic people who fail to recognize their state or situations cannot be helped. A phone call and she'll start running back?

Yet in another angle, I know some people are toxic to themselves but, we must see our partners as part owners and not strangers coming into our lives for love. This is us loving our partners just like ourselves.

Sort:  
 yesterday  

I was once called a devil by a lady for advising her

This is the problem. When you try to advise them, you'd be seen as an enemy of progress and painted to look like you want to ruin their relationship. It can even destroy your friendship with them. This is why many people just choose to mind their own business because sometimes, the hassle that comes with being "nice" is just not worth it.

 yesterday  

Quite true. It's great wisdom to caution gently and not overbearing. Soon enough, they'll see and appreciate for themselves. Hopefully, not at the regrettable stage. Thank you