The Responsibility Crisis: Why Marrying a Slob Leads to Abortion Debates and Miserable Kids

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we live in a world where where we have normalised things that once used to be taken seriously by our people and they won't let things like that slide easily.


But nowadays everything is so normalized you can't even say a word about it. Still, everyone's got an opinion and I'd share mine about those people who do abortions.

I ain't no saint, judging anyone but honestly this is a critical matter like taking life or bringing a life to a world where's nothing is certain.

People aren't that Responsible Anymore

Nowadays the thing I hate about people is there's not enough serious people anymore like everything is a joke to them and no one takes responsibility even for the simple tasks

And if a woman decides to stay with someone who can't bear simple responsibility like cleaning room, picking up clothes from the floor and provides for your needs

I don't know what's the point of being with such a man cause that's the kind of person who doesn't deserve to have kids until he becomes responsible

But what's even more weird in our society today is the mentality of parents like an irresponsible person will become responsible once they have kids after marriage.

Are you seriously kidding me? The person who is irresponsible before marriage and haven't become responsible after marriage will only make it worse after having a kid.

No one should marry someone who can't take responsibility or serious about relationship

But hook-up culture is something

That's even more irresponsible, hooking up and than when somehow got pregnant, abortion is the only choice they can make

Cause both of them knows they weren't even serious.

No fault of kid who's not even born but if is born and doesn't have the parents that take care of kid as it should be than it's better to abort.

Like don't make it worst for kid, no one deserves a miserable life. If you're not capable enough to bare responsibility and raise a child as it should be than better not have kids.

in US it's worse

In US just for the child support they'd have kid and will live on that instead of finding a job and doing some real thing.

Imagine living on child support, doesn't make sense while in 3rd world countries there's countless abandoned kids in the NGO's and all.

Mother's should have right to decide wether she wants to carry that child but father should also have a say on that but mother's know well if father would bear responsibility or nah, cause she know how he treated her, so what it could be to a child.

As I said, earlier this is quite a controversial topic and this was my opinion. Would love to hear if you want to add something on it in the comments.

that's all folks.

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 28 days ago  

You point is like nailing a wood st the right position @idksamad78699 . How can a women cope with a man who can’t responsibilities? And these are the kinds of issues to brings situation of abortion if lets assume the woman is already pregnant, and seeing how irresponsible the man became with time decided abortion is the only option so she can leave the man.

But for me, we are already in the era of awareness. People should take life seriously and consider many things before going into marriage or relationship.

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