When it's come to parent and children relationship, it's every essential to have the knowledge that it's comes in different perspective.
For some parent are unlucky to have a good and strong foundation with their children, they kept on struggling and trying everything humanly possible buh it's seem nothing positive is working out, till the time they give up on trying things again, while other parent are so lucky to have a good and strong foundation with their children so it's will be so easy to amalgamate into it, once they know the kind, and type of children they have given birth to.
Like wise to the children, they are usually excited and very happy having their parent around them at the very early stage of their life, from childhood to their adolescent stage, every children needs love, attention, care and someone to be protecting, and guiding their path, in this stage they need their parent mostly depending on the kind of relationship they have build with them, it's can either be how they behaved, and react with them, this will makes them more comfortable and smoothing the bonds or shove them away.
When i talked of protecting and guiding their path, I don't mean to be over protective, and guidance. No.No..No.... Because everything under this earth has it time and season sometimes needs privacy. I mean even the sun knows when to shine and when not to, and letting the moon to the take over, letting everything rest and most time growth /development take it's place. The kids actually need their own privacy, they really do, when you give your kids privacy with the hope and expectations, this will makes them to practice what you have taught and do them with excitement in your absent making them more happy that you trust them and won't like to break that trust.
A lot of things some parent weren't aware of, or have probably forgotten is that no body loved or enjoy to be controlled or better still be monitored, or depraved of associating like other children, to some certain stage we want to be charge of some certain things in our life.
Although when a child is from 0-6 or probably 8 years don't even think of given them privacy or given the right to take decision on their own, because In that stage of their life, they didn't have the real sense of reasoning or taking the right decision, but from the adolescent stage a child should be given privacy and freedom to make some certain decision on their own, to test and see exactly what're doing either be good or wrong, like the saying goes; mistakes is always the best teacher, we made mistake and learn from it. Because we will soon become a adult and will like know something tell and also has learnt from. Not restricting and totally be controlled, many of our parent and guardian, think they're being protective and want the most best for us, oh yes I concur to it, buh excess of everything they say is quit wrong, of a truth all children want his/her parent concerned about their life but shipping into their personal affairs, they should be a level to it, whenever it's becomes excess, most of the times everything will start fallen apart.
Look! granting your children privacy, it's give them time, to memorize and practice whatever you have taught them, and also make it easier for them to communicate and freely share their burden's with you, this is the way way you know either the learning, and you can easily correct and put them through, on doing their best .
Thanks for reading❣️.
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