They just want to be right all the time and instead of saying the simple words, they will simply dance around and try to use other acts to cover up.
I’ve seen people do something wrong and even when they text or call to apologize, they just can’t seem to push the words out. In situations like that when I observe you’re someone that rarely apologizes, I keep quiet and allow you struggle to say you’re sorry because that feeling of uneasiness you felt when you finally uttered the words will be a reminder to not do whatever you did that warranted an apology in the first place. In a few cases, I help pave a way for them to apologize by asking them questions that’ll help them apologize easier.
The only time when I don’t say sorry so easily is when I am not the one in the wrong, as a matter of fact, I was the one wronged but I believe the other party was trying to play the victim with me.
This is pure narcissistic behavior! I just made my own post on the topic and reading this part, I realized I actually wanted to say something like this, but my words were lacking and I couldn’t really phrase it like this. I have this same problem with apologies!
There are people so skilled in making themselves the victims, even when they are the ones to do wrong. They will try and turn it around, guilttripping you into blaming yourself and apologizing for something they orchestrated. They are the worst set of people.
Thank you for reading.
Exactly! And they do it so well bro, like it’s scary. Some people do it so well that even they are convinced of their manipulation.
This is a very dangerous trait, believing your lies. Because then there is nothing that can be done to save such a person.