It's good you observed what you didn't like, decided to change, immediately took action and involved men you trust in the process (i struggle with this part alot because i have been a loner for most of my life, hopefully i get to open up more to the close friends i have).
Trust me when I say doing things with friends is far more better than doing it alone.. You should try it.
Hmm.....Thanks mate! Would definitely consider it.