the society is always going to blame parents if some kid misbehave
This is true. The society points accusing finger at parents for a misbehaving child.
The increased level of nowadays is as a result of decreased level of discipline. The few kids I know to be well behaved now have parents who are tough on them.
Charity really begins from home
indeed.
It all begins from home, kids pick up and learn everything from there to onwards...