With regard to my society I also think it fits... I mean the ultimate goal of a girl's (woman's) life is thought to have a spouse and be settled in a home dealing with in-laws where there is tug of war among ladies of the household 😑

This makes a lot of sense.

Whatever young girls grow up seeing, they develop it into them unconsciously and the cycle goes on

Indeed. This is true everywhere.

!HUG for you as you continue to navigate this unhelpful competitiveness. 🤗😔😊