Good day, amazing people of hive block chain. Welcome back to my blog. It is another edition in the #hivelearners community topic. Whose fault is it?
When it comes to raising up the kids, the parents have a very important role to play; they are the first teachers to their children, and the kids look up to them.
Whose fault is it when kids misbehave?
The holy book will say train up a child in the way he should grow, and when he is old he or she will not depart from it. If I were to rate whose fault it is, when a child misbehaves, the parent will take 80% of the blame because there are some parents who have failed to carry out their responsibilities and forget they should be there to guide and monitor the kids.
When I said the parent should be calm, I have my reasons. The fact is, if one’s a parent, teach their child the things they need to know and they will not depart from it. Most parents don’t have time to bring up their kids; they always leave their kids to their nanny. They don’t have time to bond with the kids and teach them the necessary things they need to know. Tomorrow, such a child will be a problem for society. I understand the fact that parenting is not easy; it comes with a lot of responsibility trying to provide for the kids to make sure that they don't also have it in the back of your mind that these kids look up to you because you are their role model.
As a parent, you need to be free and friendly with your kids. Get a relationship between your kids so that your kids will see you as their parents and best friend. There are some parents who, once their kids see them, will not be comfortable around them. That is some of the errors parents make.
I thank God for the parents I had when I was growing up. We tried our very best to build that relationship between parents and kids. We see our parents as our friends. However our day wants, once we come back, we will host our parents of how our day went. That made us so free with our parents, and there is nothing we hide from our parents.
Life the say is stage by stage there will come a time in the life of our kids all you need is to keep encouraging them telling them all the new to know but the good and bad more especially ones the clock 18 years try to know the kind of friends the keep because that friend can either build or destroy your kids.
It always hurts when a child that the parents have sent a lot on misbehaves. I saw a situation where a father took his own because of the son's bad behaviour. After that incident, I have been asking myself who the fault is that the son turned out to be a bad boy since he is from a good family. After my research, I got to find that he misled my friends. At this point, I didn’t put all the blame on the parent; I also blamed the young man for departing from the way he was raised up.
Conclusion: I know it is not easy to try up a child; it only takes God's grace. Like I said earlier, if I were to rate the balm, the parent will take 80% of the balm because many parents have failed to take up their responsibilities to guide and train the kids.
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Parents must act as educators, and not be seen as friends, but as people to trust, those are different things, respect and well-defined roles must always be maintained, I think that is the key. And give children the necessary tools for life.
If a child deviates from the path, it is precisely because he has not been educated in the correct way, and for this you have to know how to talk to him. There are ways of saying things, and this is a very delicate topic, I dare say that it is an art that must be mastered and studied, because today the concerns, idioms and forms of the new tribes of young people are different, and the way they communicate must evolve from their parents. So it's a matter of going with the times, reading a lot and trying to fit the pieces together.
You are right my dear
When parents were (are) not up to the task, they deserve all the blames. But in a situation whereby they did all manner and the child still went bad, the blame should pour on the child abeg 😂
Okay sir
Parents truly play a vital role in what their children become. When you train up a child in the right way, there is high possiblity of the children becoming something reasonable and responsible in the society.
Some parents are indeed careless when it comes to parenting, they overlook so much in the name of love or being busy and let the destinies of their children into the hands of the devil.
Very careless my love the forget that it is there responsibility to o take care of this kids
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