I have told the story of how I was born by mistake, my siblings are much older than me, and my immediate brother gave me a good 9 years gap so you can imagine the gap between me and the 4 others but I relate with him as if he is just 2 to 3 years older than me and not much different from the rest too, we are one happy family. I think this added to the reason why I find it easier and more comfortable to relate with people that are much older than me because I grew up with oldies lol.
In case you miss the story, my mum got pregnant when she thought she could not anymore, she was scared she won't be able to handle the child labor and try to terminate him but I was destined to come through that family hence all that she tried didn't work and the doctor advised her against any other thing and she accepted fate.
They gave birth to me and I grabbed the last-born position from my immediate brother, it shocked him because he has been enjoying all the last-born privileges until my arrival, Thank God I was born because only God knows what he would have turned to if I was not, they really spoilt him and I can see it in him. 😂
Sometimes he makes me feel like I am not the last born 😁, and I didn't drag with him because deep inside me, I don't feel like the last born either.😃
Me and my immediate bro
I spent most of the years in my life with my eldest sister than my parents which explains the reason she is the one I am the closest to and it was like that till I became independent, even when I was able to take care of myself, she was still nearby because we live in the same city until recently that I changed location and now far but we are still in the same state and just like 3 hours journey to mine.
I did not miss having a younger brother or sister, cos for real I don't really feel that I am the youngest in my family. my brothers are my gist partners and we can discuss anything and everything.
One thing is I feel safe and protected with them around, imagine having 3 big brothers and two mummies[my sisters]😉 that are always there to help out when you need it
I have nephews and nieces now, if at all I feel the need for a younger one, they are there to fill the void, and also my relationship with them is more of a brother and sister too, aside from the Uncle title, we relate like siblings🙂
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Baba you are not born by mistake, you are a legend that refused to be flushed away, instead you want to flourish and you are fulfilling the mission.
You have got a cute brother here, nice content bro.
Shine on
The birth of a legend that refused to be stopped🔥, thanks my man!
You welcome bro 💓
Someone even had big mummies and bouncers .... Isn't that protection of the highest order? 😅
it is my confidence for me😁, who dare me to bully me in their presence😂
Haha... They wouldn't dare. Unless they want collect Wotowoto 😂😂
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How come you look bigger than your elder brother that is 9 yrs older. Nice to see the bond between your guys,that's basically all that matters.
hmmm, i think i am taller than him but he has body more than me, at one point in life, we will stop growing and it is the age that will tell the difference and yea no one will know he is 9 years older if i didn't mention it😁
You are not born by mistake; God sent you into this world because it is your fate. Anyway, I wonder how old your Mom bear you since you told that she can't bear, right? Just curious
she was 39, and she has not reached the menopause stage but she felt since she didn't get pregnant for good 9 years, she can't anymore but she was wrong
First of all, no one is born by mistake, I don't agree with that statement even though some mothers out of pain and anger utter such from their mouth which is wrong. You were destined to take the last born position and enjoy those goodies 😃😉
I love when siblings can relate well with each other, not minding the age gap. You guys sure enjoy being around each other. Ride on last born 🤣
My mum never said that to me when she is angry, but based on my birth story she told me, I figured out on my own that I was not part of her plans😂
Hehehe. I was only saying what many mothers say which I have heard especially where I lived and grew up. Those bad mothers do not care with statement from their mouth. Calling their kids, "born by mistake" 🤔
At least your mom never say such 😉👌
U waited for everything to be set before you came into the world to rock and roll...a candle light cannot be hidden under the bed it will burn it and create a larger flame. Thank God you are born and no man born of a woman can ever hurt u.
LOL, sounds that way, I arrived when everything was alright😃
Heheheh set awa last born lol, i totally agrre with all that is stated here and that is because i know and have seen it lol, omo 9 years go far oh, you don be goon from pregnancy lol, but i think you are destined to come from that family that is why you are here today hehe, bad guy, this is an awesome one ...
that is just it, it is destiny🙂... God wants me to be born into the family and am glad to be part of them🔥
Hahaha 😂 , burl refused to be flushed 🤣🤣...God gat your back...a Destiny child fulfilling destiny you are. God kept you intact despite the attempt by Ur mum , however I understand her plights..when you have concluded emotionally and physically that you are done giving birth, boom 💥, pregnancy...this is me atm, and I pray that pregnancy will not show face oo 😂
You and your siblings are cute... just wondering why u are bigger than Ur elder brother who senior you with 9 years huh? Oh.. you are eating hive money 🤑💰 pretty well 😍
🤣😂 and I am not big o, maybe he is smaller 🤣😂 or maybe it is the shirt I put on👀
you can't escape it either, i think you are going to give birth to two more and then you will be free🏃🏃
Hahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Why running...just wait and repeat what you said again 🤣🤣🤣
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You are the little one means you grow up without and kind extra pressure because you has elder brother to handle the pressure. Sometimes I feel it would be better if I were the little one in my family.
I respect the eldest children in families because they are the ones to shoulder the responsibilities after their parents, are you the eldest or close to the eldest?
Yes, I am the eldest son of my parents.
Oh that is nice, you have a lot of responsibilities but your younger ones are your pride too😊
Responsibility is natural as the elder brother and I also think my younger ones will be my better version and I believe it's just a matter of time.
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I can see that you have a great relationship with your brothers despite the age difference, and that's really good.
yea we relate well, that is the beauty of having a good family
I laughed at your sentence of mistakenly birth 😂. You are lucky to be enjoying the advantages of a younger one. I 'm the eldest among all family members. I enjoyed your post a lot, thank you for sharing with us.
lol, hope you are happy being the first or do you want to change position with me? just kidding😁
I 'm comfortable with my position. Oh my ghost 🤣, I found someone who want to change its position with me 😂. Kidding
Who would have thought a big man like you is a last baby.😂 I can’t imagine how you feel with very old siblings. I guess it must feel good.😅
🤣I am o, i feel the same way other people feel with their young siblings na, it is all the same😋
Big man like you being treated like a baby.😂
Lol
You are the same as my little brother. I am nine years older than him but we relate like mates...lol
He's lovely
oh that is nice, I am not alone in this then, maybe he will tell his story someday too😊
Destiny can't never be stopped. You just had to come into this world and be the last born of the family. The difference on age is a bit huge but the relatable-ness is there :)
yea, what will be will be
Hahaha 🤣 born by mistake you say but now nko you are enjoying the privilege of last born
Look at how you said it two big brothers and two mummys
Well when you guys are small it will be like a war but now that everyone is an adult the love be like thank God I have siblings.
Nice story🥰🥰🥰
When it happens in this way, there are more siblings, the younger one is not working, nor is there anything else, that person is living his life comfortably.
thanks boss!