Whatever we do in life, we must always put our mental health first... be it in friendship, love life, or work, we must prioritize our mental well-being before anything else.
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One of the things that has messed up my mental health is love, I am a passionate person and an overthinker but I don't show this side of me to people, only known to me.
The first situation that messed with my mental health was my first love, I spent 5 years of my life in pain because of her, I just couldn't get her off my mind and I would always wonder where and when things had gone so wrong, I lost interest in people and other things that gives me joy... I just wanted to be alone but that alone would not solve my problem, I needed something to keep me busy so I made hard work my companion...
I was so hard working and hardly communicated or gist with people around me, this made my boss love me cos I was dedicated to his work, he did not know I was in so much pain caused by love... No one knows not even my family, I was so good at keeping it a secret from everyone.... I would work so hard in the day, and cry alone at night when everyone was asleep, I have this favorite spot at the balcony where I would sit on a bench and shed those warm tears with no one to comfort me.
Why does it hurt so much? why did it take so long before I could heal from those pains? Why did I have to torture myself for being rejected by someone I fell in love with?
There is only one answer to all these questions, I was not ready to let go of her memories
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The memories of the past made it so hard to let go of her because those memories were beautiful and I cherished them... She was my first close friend as a girl, she was the first girl I spent a late night out with because her parent always come home late, she was the first girl that made me feel special as a friend, she was the first girl I walked the street with, she was the first I played so much with, all these memories were so beautiful and I do not want to lose them...
Whenever I remember those memories and how I wish she could be mine forever to continue creating more beautiful memories and also remember how that is not possible because I was rejected, it hurt so bad, it hurt more than a physical pain and all I could do was live a life of loneliness. I withdrew from others not giving anyone a chance to help me heal not until an Angel found me.
God bless the day I met this Angel, I tried pushing her away just like I did the rest but there is a saying that if someone has been sent to help you, they will do their work in your life no matter how you resist it.
Oh well Like I said, memories made my first love special, I gave love a second chance in my life and within a short time, I was healed completely... Only Love can heal a broken Heart
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I am not experienced in love but I can guess the situation of you first love. It's not so easy to let it go as it's deeply connected with emotions. Moreover, it was such a time we think emotionally.
yea being the first time, the emotions could not be controlled bt the thing is the more we get hurt the more we can withstand such pains and not easily get affected by such again, we adapt
The pain and the cure for the pain are almost the same? Similar to fighting fire with fire. A broken heart can take a long time to heal, some argue, that it never heals and you just learn to live with it.
it heals, just that you need to give love another chance, you need to give someone else chance to heal you, cos right now i bear no pains in my heart and my first love no longer affect me in any way
Love go show you shege😅😅
There are so many people on the streets on Lagos so we have to keep a space for disappointment in our heart
that is for the upcoming lovers, now i am immune to heartbreak lol
Memories are what make life special, when we feel sad in our life, we remember the past and life becomes beautiful again, what we spent with our friends, with our relatives. It happens that they remember the time and the fact that we also remember those who have passed away from this world, so many things start to reappear before our eyes.