Betrayal hurt alot, it stings like hornet and the worst part is it always come from people you trust, there can't be betrayal without trust anyway because only those who knows your weakness can betray you and for people to be able to know your weakness, it can either means you told them or someone very close to you reveal it to them...
This is why trust is a very expensive gift nowadays, you can't blindly trust anyone because you can't read people's mind, you don't know if they are sincerely happy for you or just faking it, nor do you know the reason why some people became your friends, it may be to destroy you, not all friends are friends some are monitoring spirit....
This is why i made my own simple rule to save myself from unwanted betrayal, love all but trust no one this is my motto, i am friendly and nice to every one but i will never let them to know my weakness because it makes me vulnerable and i hate that feeling knowing someone's action can hurt me...
I don't give people chance to hurt me so i do not have much betrayal case but i do remember one very close to being betrayed and would love to share the story...
In 2014, i met a guy on 2go social media in a group chat where we were dissing girls, we realized we were both trouble makers so we added each other up and anytime we are bored we will enter 2go rooms and tell each other the group we are so others can join us then we will start looking for people's trouble in the Gp, it was fun to do and we never got tired of doing it, me and this guy also used to chat well in dm and we told each other things that is hurting us and as at that time, it had been three years i finished school without gaining admission yet into university so i told him about that as well...
On one fateful day, we were in a group chat as usual and there is this particular girl that seems to have my time, she keeps dissing me as i dissed her too and later when it seems i was winning and the girl was already getting annoyed and angry, something happened! i noticed my friend likes the girl because she was beautiful so he added her up and told her things that will pain me if she used it against me and that was exactly what happened, the girl started using what i told my friend to diss me, it was not the diss that hurt that much but the fact i got betrayed by him because of a girl...
I didn't act like i knew he told her but he lost my trust that day and that also made me withdraw a bit and i learnt more lesson, play but never reveal your deepest secret, i felt betrayed yea but it only made me to build a higher wall around me that no one can penetrate and i was glad it was not something serious, that was how he could have reveal it easily....
Always remember: NEVER LET THEM KNOW YOUR WEAKNESS
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Your story is the reason why I am very mindful of what I say to people regardless of how close we are because those things can be used to spite me ok the day of quarrel. Well, at least you know better now
yea i learnt from experience
Omo... I still remember use the 2go to catch cruise. Then fighting for the stars. Lol.
Back to your story bro, its had to trust anyone, once lay down our weakness to those we think we trust, they turn it against us. Instead, of building your friend strength. No, they just see envy.
Hmmm.... Loyalty and trust is difficult to come by these days.
I enjoyed the read bro.💯💯
i love 2go days too until whatsapp came to ruin it😅
yea no more trust.. but it is okay to be kind to all
I have had different cases of distrust from people and this made me not to trust any longer. Human beings are unpredictable , they can disappoint you when you least expected . Guard what you have, manage your weakness , disclosing it to friends will always land us in a bad state in time of misunderstanding .
Glad you learned from the minor case you had 👍
thanks nkem, yea i will keep my secret to myself instead of feeling insecure after telling others
Trust is precious - not many can be trusted. You were playing a game which backfired and I am sure your learnt a valuable lesson - so somehting good came from the experience.
yes exactly, it was something unexpected but glad it happened, i was able to prevent cases like that after his own
love does not always run normally. but for me, I will give full trust of love when I'm married because that's the right time to marry a partner.
hmmm be careful the worst damage is done by trusting too much
Exactly my brother
Betrayal is a tough thing to swallow.
very very, hurt like hell
Lol! Weytin man do man because of woman. Omo that 2014, I still dey high school by that time. You be my grand father be that. Omoh, 2go of those days when WhatsApp didn’t exist.
🤣grandpa ke😂, but honestly ladies can ruin many things for men, they are one of the weakness we can't control and yet cant do without... and yea i miss 2go days😇
Friends are the people you should fear the most, because as for your enemy, you already know he's an enemy but your friend, you would think he/she loves you and trustworthy until it happens...
Love all but trust no one.
oh my! The days of 2go 😂.
Nothing hurts more when a betrayal or downfall is caused by a friend - one you'd call your friend, honestly. Because for someone like me before i 'd allow you to be my friend it means you have done a lot for me and I have found you worthy.
It seens I will start to apply your rule now @burlarj
2go days one of the best days lol, even those we select can stll fail us, the best is not to tell them what can make them betray us, we can keep our burden to ourselves
It only takes a second to break the trust but need years to rebuilt it.
and atimes it can never be rebuilt, once broken it ends there
Trust indeed is too expensive to sell out, you just can't tell people's actual intentions by their actions, they can show you how good they can be for you but deep down, they are like roaring lion that is looking for who to devour...
exactly we dont know what people wish us amidst their smiling face and hence why we must be very careful
Fact...
Sometimes, the way guys turn on their own because of a girl is kind of funny. It doesn't speak well at all of a man when he says bad things about his friends just to please a woman.
It means that should anything happen to that relationship, be will definitely say bad things about her as well. Too bad.
Thank you for sharing this with us.
yea things people do for lust, thanks my man
I like this motto of yours
Mottos like this save us from falling victim of betrayal.
Friends can just switch up on you anytime.
Reminds me of a similar saying "Trust your compatriots, but count your change." or "Trust, but verify". The idea I think is to not assume a betrayal, but keep your eyes open because even those who are most trusted can betray you. The sooner you know about it the sooner it can be addressed. Count your change. Verify the data. It's the loving thing to do.