Happy New Year to all my friends in the hive Blockchain. It is indeed a very good thing to experience God's favor from the beginning to the end of the year 2025.
In some hours from now we will be moving to the new year and I know that it will be great for us. And having new good and beautiful friends for the new year will be fine. Hmmm! But come to think of it, I also have my good old friends who have been of great help to me in the past and still helpful to me and the good people around me.
A LITTLE ADJUSTMENT
This is what I know that I need. It was as if I saw this topic from afar because I recently cut someone who I know is not good for my kind of person away from me. I believe that it is what is needed at this point. Take away the bad egg and bring in the good ones.
What should I gain from friendship? Maybe this should be my question right now. When one don't know what to expect from a friendship, then that person will not also know when to move on without that friend. This is what I planned doing in the year 2026. Because I don't need bad energy around me this new year. The friend that I personally cut off is the type that always makes sure you feel less of yourself. If there was any misunderstanding, she must be the person that will win the argument or she will frustrate the second person. She is the type that you don't pray to cross part with her. When you do, you will regret it for the rest of your life. She is always the correct person every other person must be wrong and agree to that before her for peace to reign. Most people in my community tries so much to avoid her so that they don't fall into her trouble. I know of several times when I had to settle disputes between her and many other people. Snd when I am doing so, I will have to be very careful because if she knows at any point that I don't support her but the other person, then it will affect our friendship. I have been looking for a way of that friendship.
Finally we had a misunderstanding and she made sure to stain my name all over the places and that was the height of it for me. I couldn't withstand her anymore and even when she show some remorse I wasn't ready for her nonsense any more. I had to let her go for the sake of peace, because keeping someone like her close to you means constant trouble and I don't have the energy for that.
So, yes. This new year I won't not think twice before going away from any friend that has no positive impact in my life. I need a kind of friend that can watch my back and I will do same too.
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Friends like that should be cut off without waiting until they strike again..
Very correct.
Thanks a lot and happy new year
It's very important to make adjustments as one enters into the new year
Friends or those who drains the little energy we have should always be put in their place. Life is too short to be moving with such friends
Yeah, one needs to separate the good from the bad and not the friends that will be holding one down to a particular spot. Thanks for sharing.