I feel betrayed, but I do not tell him because he will tell the visitors and embarrass me.😂
My husband has a very lax tongue too, to make me look bad totally on purpose when it comes to this "nonsense" of mine--"nonsense" 😒--It's something that amuses him. So I hold my tongue when visitors are present.
About that teacup, my mother had the same attitude. She wouldn't let me have "my own" things. Everything was everyone's in my house; we "had to share" Damn it! 😂
They just don't get it that it "a crime" not nonsense 😂
Yeah, my mother was shocked to hear me say the teacup was mine 🤣
We were six children at home! "Share" was like "nothing here is actually yours" 😑 Anyway, we grow up and get to have things that are actually all yours. Then husband happens 🤣
I can relate to that 100% 🤣
I have always thought, @marlyncabrera, that individual, personal things are very important, not everything can be collective.
As for whether or not to lend coffee cups, that is also very personal and only a person who is initiated into coffee rituals understands it.
Totally. I understand that sharing is healthy because it makes us aware; it's a fact that we cannot value the generosity that others have with us if we ourselves are not generous. This is just as true as the fact that true coffee drinkers can be misunderstood by people who don't drink coffee or are just occasional drinkers. The "this is my cup" thing is an old habit for a reason 👵