English version
Greetings friends, today I want to talk to you about an important matter, as you know it is very important to treat others well right? There are many ways to do it and one of them is when they visit us in our home, we have to take into account that when they visit us we become hosts so it is important that we treat them well, even when we do not have much to offer.
Of course we know that over time we have lost a little of the kindness with which we treat others, so it is important that we make the effort to serve others well, to the point of making them feel that we take them into account, in this case not having preference to treat them all the same, that is what being kind is all about.
In my family we receive people who visit us with affection and kindness and one way to show it is precisely by offering them a cup of coffee while we talk for a while, in fact if my wife is the one who is talking to the person, depending on the conversation I go to the kitchen and prepare the coffee, so that the person who is visiting us feels good and that person feels comfortable, because he feels well received.
We have the custom here in the country, that if a visitor arrives at lunchtime, we never let that visitor leave without eating, it would be for us something unkind, although it depends on the possibilities of the people, of course. But even so, we try not to let them leave without being offered something, and sometimes we feel bad when we have nothing to offer.
But thank God we always have something to share with the people who visit us, because we want our visitors to feel comfortable with us and have a good time while they are in our house. I tell you that we have the habit of having a cup of coffee every time we finish our midday meal and even more when someone is visiting us, it is as if that moment becomes special because we are enjoying, talking with our visiting friend.
Well, apart from the coffee that is never missing in the afternoon as a snack we take it with bread and cookies that my wife always has saved for those moments and if it is possible to share also with the visitors. It is good to note that coffee always gets us out of trouble when it comes to attending a visit and helps us not to feel bad for not having anything to offer. We always try to have our coffee in the house for those moments when the visits are quick and we tell our friends "don't leave so fast, I already set up the coffee".
This is the way we try to be good hosts with our friends, the important thing is to treat others well, so it is important to think in advance how to treat well our friends or other people who visit us.
And in this case the coffee is a good companion to be able to achieve that you are good hosts and the beginning to treat others well and have good conversations with your friends, remember that it is also very important the treatment we give you do not want people to feel good only for the coffee or the food we give them, but also in how we treat them there are many other ways to make others feel good let's try to find the right one.
Remember that the important thing is that others feel comfortable with us, well I would like to invite you all to have a cup of coffee, but it is impossible because we are far away from each other and also because we have to take care of the pandemic. We hope that when you are drinking your coffee you will remember me because it is good for thinking and meditating. A big hug, my friends, and I bid you all farewell.
Vesión español
Saludos amigos, hoy quiero hablarles de un asunto importante, como saben es muy importante tratar bien a los demás ¿verdad? Hay muchas maneras de hacerlo y una de ellas es cuando nos visitan en nuestra casa, tenemos que tomar en cuenta que cuando nos visitan nosotros nos convertimos en anfitriones por eso es importante que los tratemos bien, incluso cuando no tengamos mucho que ofrecer.
Claro sabemos que con el tiempo se ha perdido un poco la amabilidad con la que se trata a los demás, por eso es importante que hagamos el esfuerzo de atender a otros bien, al punto de hacer que sientan que uno lo toma en cuenta, en este caso no tener preferencia tratarlos a todos igual, en eso consiste ser amable.
En mi familia recibimos a las personas que nos visitan con cariño y amabilidad y una manera de demostrarlo es precisamente, ofreciéndoles una taza de café mientras conversamos un rato, de hecho si mi esposa es la que está hablando con la persona, depende la conversación yo me voy a la cocina y preparo el café, para qué la persona que nos esté visitando se sienta bien y esa persona se siente cómoda, porque se siente bien recibida.
Tenemos la costumbre acá en el país, de que si llega una visita a la hora de la comida, a esa visita nunca la dejamos ir sin comer, sería para nosotros algo poco amable, aunque depende de las posibilidades de las personas, claro está. Pero aun así, procuramos que no se vaya sin que se le ofrezca algo y a veces nos sentimos mal cuando no tenemos nada que ofrecer.
Pero gracias a Dios siempre tenemos algo que compartir con las personas que nos visitan, porque es que queremos que nuestros visitantes se sientan a gusto con nosotros y la pasen bien en ese momento que están en nuestra casa. Les cuento que tenemos la costumbre de tomarnos una tacita de café cada vez que terminamos la comida del mediodía y más aún cuando alguien nos está visitando, es como si ese momento se vuelve especial porque estamos disfrutando, conversando con nuestro amigo visitante.
Bueno, aparte del cafecito que nunca falta en la tarde como merienda lo tomamos con pan y galletas que siempre mi esposa tiene guardado para esos momentos y si es posible compartir también con las visitas. Es bueno notar que el café siempre nos saca de apuros cuando se trata de atender una visita y nos ayuda a no sentirnos mal por no tener nada que ofrecer. Nosotros siempre tratamos de tener nuestro café en la casa para esos momentos en donde las visitas son rápidas le decimos a nuestros amigos "no se vaya tan rápido, ya monté el café".
Esta es la manera como nosotros tratamos de ser buenos anfitriones con nuestros amigos, lo importante es tratar bien a los demás, por ello es importante pensar de antemano como tratar bien a nuestros amigos o a otras personas que nos visitan.
Y en este caso el café es un buen acompañante para poder lograr que ustedes sean buenos anfitriones y el comienzo para tratar bien a los demás y tener buenas conversaciones con sus amigos, recordemos que también es muy importante el trato que le demos no queremos que la gente se sienta bien únicamente por el café o la comida que les brindamos, sino también en como los tratamos hay muchas otras maneras de hacer sentir bien a otros tratemos de buscar la adecuada.
Recuerde que lo importante es que otros se sientan a gusto con nosotros, bueno quisiera invitarlos a todos para tomarnos un cafecito, pero se hace imposible porque estamos muy lejos unos del otro y además porque tenemos que cuidarnos de la pandemia. Esperamos que cuando se esté tomando su cafecito se acuerde de mi porque es bueno hasta para pensar y meditar. Un abrazo amigos se despiden de ustedes sus amigos quienes les tienen aprecio @liliayjuvenal
We have the same belief when it comes to hospitality and making our guests feel at home :) A cup of coffee or tea or a meal would be really good to welcome them
That's right, sometimes we take for granted how good someone can feel with this simple gesture. Thanks for reading my post and leaving me a comment, that's encouraging.
I think if we are used to receiving guests, coffee or tea would always be the first thing we prepare to welcome them :)
It's my pleasure to read yours :)
Hello @liliayjuvenal, I agree that the hospitality we extend to persons visiting our homes is rewarding on both ends.
A nice coffee of coffee or tea, always makes people feel more comfortable:)
Thank you for taking the time to read this publication. And yes, being hospitable does not require us to be millionaires, with a cup of coffee, sometimes it is more than enough. A hug, my wife and I hope you continue to be well, and healthy.
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Hello again @liliayjuvenal, I forgot to mention, please could you edit your post, as parts of the translation are duplicated in Spanish, instead of English.
English is the main language, so it might be better to present the English translation completely, and then the Spanish below, instead of mixing the translation in chunks.
It would make your post easier to read, and your story would have a better flow.
Hi @millycf1976 thank you very much for the suggestion, I checked and you are right. I already corrected it and for next time I will also take it into account. Again thanks to this age sometimes we overlook some things, but we keep learning.
You're very welcome. Thanks for updating it!
Have a nice weekend:)
Same to you, have a great time.
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