It all sounds so easy and achievable until you actually try. Well, now that I think bout it, trying, i.e. being intentional about it could actually make it seem achievable. But then again, I don't see much people even willing to try, or self-aware enough to. Yet again, it will take people like us who try probably because we've come across posts like this to encourage and inspire others to try too. kudos! The culture you speak of is indeed an undesirable one.