Hello People!
I am too tired today. Actually, I am tired of being a mom, a wife, a daughter. Especially after having a kid, your own life goes for a toss. Even though I am not the kind of mom who keeps running after their kids but still there is so much to do and I just don't get time for myself.
Somedays I don't want to cook or clean the house or do anything but still, I have to because there are people in the house who depend on me. Although my husband is very supportive and he is ok if I don't do anything but there arises guilt when I skip on things since it not only affects me but others also.
Sometimes I feel like living a day or two all alone. Sitting in my balcony, having tea and maggie, sleeping, watching tv, going for a swim, coming back and chilling on the bed - no worries what my son or husband are doing or what they want. I want a day in my life that is about me, what I need and what I want.
Can this happen after you get married and have a child?
Even though I love both of them to an extent no one can imagine, but I love myself too and i think at times its ok to be selfish and think for yourself.
Wow, as a woman all this is part of your responsibility
As a mom you need to take care of your children and also
As a wife you need to take care of your husband likewise he did and at times all what you stated here is always like that but you just need to be calming down and think that all people in the house depends on you which you need to attend to them appropriately so in this case all what you stated are do happen but you need to be a calmed person......
As a wife !
As a mom !
Marriage is so sweet when you have a right partner
Yes that's how I must be and I am. There's not much option I have. Before Raag, I used to go to my mother's place for a week and chill out. Now going there is also a catch because I have to carry so much stuff that I give up on going.
But you are right, these are my responsibilities and I can't run away from them. My husband is doing my part and so must I. And I will. Thanks for your support :)
Almost welcome mate all those things do happen which is normal and you child will be looking at your footsteps
If you can still remember that the first teacher to the children is their mother so if that is right please be calmed everything will still be right just take things easy.
You're very welcome
Yes I do agree to that and that's what keep me going.
Love to hear that from you boss, just keep going and with time everything will come to normal so that you can enjoy all what you want but
Patience is the key
Yes that's how I must be and I am. There's not much option I have. Before Raag, I used to go to my mother's place for a week and chill out. Now going there is also a catch because I have to carry so much stuff that I give up on going.
But you are right, these are my responsibilities and I can't run away from them. My husband is doing my part and so must I. And I will. Thanks for your support :)
I know is not easy at all,God will strengthen you and be ur helper.
Been a more is no easy thing has you have lot of responsibilities that you oftentimes forget about your wellbeing. It's normal to want to take time to treat yourself nice or have alone time, I don't consider it a selfish act. You are human and it is normal to think about yourself. No one is a superhuman, so do what you feel is best has long as it makes you more relaxed and happy for the time being. It is also important to communicate this things with your husband, I believe he will also understand. You may need his assistance in certain times so you don't get burned out from work stress at the office and responsibilities of taking care of the children and the home.