let me quickly do a recap of one of my question which I asked sometimes ago on the @vempromundo.pob pobtalk platform,it is not really that I wasn't satisfy with the answer gotten there,but I felt their is a need to make it open for the whole hive user's and the proofofbrain community member's to looked into
I was brought up with an adage which says
"Twenty children can't play together for twenty years.
Literally the word above means you can be with twenty of your friends for twenty years ,which I want say in the course of the subsequent years to come one way or the other you people would have departed either on a good terms like getting a job or relocating or on a bad terms in times of argument or dispute.
But as important as all this thing's are, their is one question attached to all this stats above,which is
WHAT ARE THE CRITERIA YOU LOOK FOR BEFORE CHOOSING A FRIEND OR BEFORE CONSIDERING SOMEONE AS A FRIEND?
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Nice write up, really got me perplexed and caught up with a lot of thoughts on my mind.
Well, who i consider as my friend is someone who got my back at all times, someone i can vibe with naturally, someone who understands where i come from, someone who won't judge my flaws and imperfections, someone who is ready to help me in times of trouble, and most importantly someone who makes me happy. Now that's a true friend!
Hello pthner2020 you have asked an interesting question
'The criteria of choosing someone as my friend'
Firstly a person that will be my friend dose not have to be perfect, because I'n't perfect too,
My friend will be someone I can trust, a honesty and hard working person, a goal getter, lively, cool to be with. Someone that can cares about me as much as I cares about them are my friends.
There's really no criteria for being my friend. I hardly have a lot of friends not because they didn't match my standard or anything but because I feel it'll save me a lot of trouble.
Humans are a hard nut to crack sometimes, if you're a teacher in a class of 100 students you'll notice that you'll end up going home every day with migraines,lol because they're a lot of personalities to work with and it's not easy.
I always like to keep my circle small because it'll less of a stress.
About the kind of people I relate with. I like smart people, smart and funny people, not the geeky kind who's always serious, we tend to relate more. I enjoy staying around real people, people who take life as it comes, people who're not negative, those who have a drive and work towards achieving their goal. There's really a lot of reasons but sometimes it's just easy to connect to some people the moment you just see them. It's like at first sight, haha.
I know I didn't answer your question really well but I just gave an insight
I'm not sure I choose my friends, per se. I am pretty outgoing. When someone has similar interests as me and similar humor as me, we get along. The more often we get along, the more often we hang out and find reasons to get together. I don't have a ton of friends that I hang out with for various reasons. The biggest is that I'm a terribly busy person, always in pursuit of providing as best for my family as I can. That lends me to basically hanging out with my family only; however, I do have a couple of friends who I get to see one every couple months.
As for the twenty... maybe it's true, but I do have a friend or two, who after more than 20 years, I could call them and within an hour, we could be right back where we were when we saw each other last.