Good one from you and you well said , even thou I don have alot to say or contribute for now on this,but the little I have to say must bet out of the bag

The.most damaging character in life is when we try to imitate others,in which I is very bad ,cause I always believed that our ability and strength aren't the same,so anytime we try to act in the space of someone we tend to put pressure.kn ourselves so as to deliver.or achieved same result as that person.

Alot of things as lead to this and just you said in the above content

We must stop pretending what we aren’t in order to please others and try to be ourselves to happily integrate others into our lives.

Definitely this above statement on it own won't go us , most especially when you are
Pretending to be what you are not,being yourself makes whatever you do becomes so unique that you get reckon with cause those results are achieved by your normal being

Don't misunderstood.me,it is not a crime to get motivated by people achievement,but it is a crime if you tend to act in their capacity to achieve same result as them too

And to me which I want to believe that it is not for everyone,when we change to please other people for one reason or the other a
I as a person sees it as an invitation to failure

When we only change to please others, sooner or later this behavior will affect us because nothing we are doing really satisfies us.

You don't change to please people's.view and that is why it is stated in the law of man that you can't satisfying everyone,cause your ability to make some set of people happy towards you is making another one sad at that same time.

Learn to be real it is a virtue that not even money can buy