That is one thing about life as we look up to some set of people,some set of people also in one way or the other look up to us.

I really see reasons in your view about this topic and that is why most times I suggest that we should not at any point in life put ourselves on pressure irrespective of how it looks

Even all this pressure, especially peer pressure can be very damaging, cause at the point of trying to match others people achievement ,you might make a bigger mistake that won't have remedy