It is good to be here again today and I want to say I ame a little bit late behind my normal time,but it is better to show up here late and never to come at all, trust me my engagement here is not complete if I don't comes to the @vempromundo.pob POBTALK to say something or raise an issue for people or users if I may use to iron out,it pleases me well enough to see the level of contribution to yesterday question.
But as today is Sunday,I have a very familiar question to let us talk about,life is filled with different people with different idea and knowledge or let me also use the word understanding too and we see things in different ways and all this above reasons as in one way or the other leads so many people to actually offend us or let me it as leads to people making mistakes that really hurt us in life.
But some set of individuals still believe that once they make a mistake is better they go back and make amend or go for restitution.
Don't forget that mistake are bigger than each other,but let look at it this way, irrespective of our bad or how hurt it is
HOW TO YOU REACT TO PEOPLE THAT COMES TO YOU FOR RESTITUTION?
Life is all about right and wrong so is either you offend someone or you get offended one thing for sure is one must have in life.
I will tell you the kind of person I am, am an easygoing someone so I don't like holding things against anybody so once someone offends me and comes say sorry judging by what the person did I will forgive.
It depends on what the mistake was, If it is minute then of course it is easier to let go but if it has cost something very dear to me then it may take a while to get over it.
This is interesting. And it is a good reason y i love this platform. We tend to learn on a daily basis.
Well it depend on what the gravity of the person's offence. I know so many people will say a lot of thing concerning this. But the truth is that, this is a big question. I want to read people opinion first before i comment.
To complicate things concerning the question raise. Let me also ask the question in this form
This is really critical but it all depends on me if truly have given my life to christ I will realize have done the worse to God.
so I have no choice than to forgive the person and thank God for taken decision because I knew something might as Push him to take such decision.juet that as a human being it will be painful and no matter what I did can not bring back the child to me.
But the most important thing is to have the spirit of forgiveness in doing this alot are also learning from us
The truth is that it is not going to be easy to forgive someone that has hurt you up to that extent. Let leave religion aside.
Restitution is avl very big word I must say and at times people's view towards it differs.
But one way or the other mistakes committed are to be check before anything,but of all I want to say the word is a big one and people who show up with confidence should be considered
This is very sensitive and I don't think we can fully prepare for how we will feel in a situation like that. It will take a really strong person to forgive a "mistake" like that
I'm sorry to say this but there is a lot of things many of us don't know in life you, you can't kill my only child and you are coming up to me for restitution God help me I might end up killing you too.
Ok maybe I will do that if you killed my child intentionally like you did it on purpose to get to me but in a case it is an accident I will actually consider to know where the fault is coming from.
People are wicked and the world we are living in is wicked too so the action I will take against you totally depends on your intentions for killing my child.
This is will be a very hard one to forgive. It will take the grace of God for someone to let go of such hurt of losing a child when the attacker comes forward asking for forgiveness.
In such a situation, I might have to forgive after justice has taken it's full course first. There ought to be punishment for certain attrocities before atoning for mercy.
It sure wouldn't be easy. I will have to let the scripture take it course, as it said forgive others. If our Heavenly Father can forgive us for the worst sins, it's good to do likewise to our fellow no matter how hard it might be. It's not good to take such offense to the grave.
Well even i myself do offend GOD and he do forgive me,so i too need to learn how to forgive others whenever they offended me or have offended me..
You have a great point,but the truth is,forgiving someone is not always easy
the truth is that restitution is not really easy. especially if the hurt or pain caused earlier created a big scar that one can never forget. And believe me sincerely it is not really easy to come out to plead for restitution. Anyone who can take a bold step to do this ha really tried a lot to subdue their ego.
nevertheless once the did has been done, i don't think it is really easy to redeemed what has been done. so for me i will rather let go. and end everything there.
I forgive them but some of the times people come into the life to manipulate and that has been the bad days or experience for me.