This is an astonishing post. When I started it, I thought it was going to be a troll situation. I couldn't be sure you weren't employing sarcasm. But it turned out to be a memorial post. Very nice. I hope he had some loving happy moments before he died, because they sure put him through hell.
Lloyd's story could be used as an argument against MFA especially this part:
they all want to charge me $1000 a week which I don't have
He was angry at his disease, and, at first, at you, because you were positing treatments that insurance would not pay for.
He was angry at life and at himself mostly but from what I did know of him he sure loved fishing and making people laugh. His daughter still posts n his wall and misses him a lot. I wish I could have got through to him that just not doing chemo etc would have saved him. I never posted anything about costly treatments in my group either he was comparing me to something else.