God's way is often the easiest and most straightforward way, but the human species love complications. Surrendering all to Jesus seems difficult. We become custodians of our pain and suffering it becomes so important to us we are unwilling to let it go no matter what.

It might take some time but God heals all our wounds. I can say that a lot of bitterness has been removed from my life. I remember hoarding a lot of pain and resentment, but these days it is quite easy to let go and love, not just ourselves but the people around us.