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Hello my dear hieve family, I hope this meets you well, just as a promise, my articles must be an educative and captivating one and I want us all to be very interactive in comment/ reply section to air our views and experience, it might help someone who knows...
I will be bringing us up to speed about the things we neglect in our relationships that have proved to be of more importance than just love,
TRUST ; when it comes to a relationship trust means having faith or relying or confineding in someone, when you have faith or rely or even confined in someone you definitely believe that the person will not harm you there by you feel relaxed and safe, that's exactly what having trust in someone means, trust in relationship is very vital because it allows the both parties to feel safe even when revealing their secrets to their partners, without trust in a relationship it won't work out. The ability to trust your partner should be an utmost importance to you.
COMMUNICATION; in a relationship to communicate means to connect, it can be via vocal or written. just as the saying goes that "communication is the fuel of the love machine", absolutely that's what it is, when you don't communicate with your partner no matter how short the distance is the relationship gets weaker by the day but when you communicate on a daily basis irrespective of the distance the relationship keeps getting stronger by the day that's one of the key in relationship, just communicate.
RESPECT; This is the part I will like to emphasize more on, according to Oxford dictionary respect means"due regard for the feelings, wishes, or rights of others", in a relationship if you ask a man who do you think should deserve more respect in a relationship? he will definitely tell you HE deserves more respect, on the other hand, if you ask a woman who do you think should deserve more respect in a relationship?she will definitely tell you SHE deserves more. Now going by the Oxford dictionary, it's clearly written "right of others" which means means whether man or woman your partner deserves respect, and as the saying goes "respect is a reciprocal" so, for a relationship to be healthier and stronger respect is importantly needed from both partners.
CONCLUSION
There are more, but these three things are so important in a relationship that most of us neglect which are in one way or the other more important in a relationship than just loving, now let me ask this question how can you be in a relationship that you don't trust your partner or respect your partner or even communicate frequently with your partner and you claim you love your partner, how?
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Indeed there are certain things that are as important in every relationship apart from just. Love might just be emotional side of it all but without vital ingredients, it will crumble. The reason partner or couple should pay utmost importance to this things you just shared.
One aspect that happens to crumble most relationship is trust. Virtually most relationship that have broken up or crashed suffer from this factor. The reason people in love should pay attention to the relationship and treat it well by opening up to their partner about everything that need to known. Hiding secrets will only kill off the relationship when he or she gets to know. The reason we must confide in our partners if we say we love them.
Communication is also a very vital part has lack of it will only worsen it and will bring in trust issues. This works slightly together with trust. If we love someone, we are to be opened to them in basically ever matter. We will also find out there love languages if we communicate more with them.
Respect is one thing we should also have has lack of it doesn't show we love at all. What we love don't been done to us shouldn't be done to our partners. For example, cheating. No one loves been cheated. We also should respect the relationship and avoid anything that will hurt our partner.
There may be other things but this three summarizes them all has it contains all it takes for a relationship to remain heathy. If partners stick to this things they will overcome many challenges that comes with been in a relationship. Thanks for sharing this interesting post. Got me to revaluate certain things. Love to read more meaningful contents from you again.
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