From most good relationship books I have read, most of the writers just like you emphasis more on respect and trust for a healthy, honest and happy relationship. Thank you very much. Please I have a question for you, had an issue with a friend yesterday concerning telling someone what I told her and I expected it to be among us. Although when I realized she told her friend and quietly chatted her up and also called her but she was not seeing anything wrong with what she did. I never reacted like I was angry instead she was like what she did was cool as long as she's concerned. I had to let go of that stuff but now it's affecting our relationship both from my side and her side. I really don't know what to do. Can you help?