I often wonder if these kinds of ponderings circulate through the ether. I've actually been thinking about a similar topic myself, recently. Or maybe they are things that we all experience in life and they come to mind now and again.
Before you begin to think, "Well, that's not me! I can't possibly be lumped in with this culture of superiority" - I'd like to challenge you a little.
I was discussing something around this with my mum, recently. My belief is that we instinctively all compare ourselves to others to try and find somewhere that we can be superior. The tough part is recognising that in ourselves when we do it in order to bring ourselves back to reality. I often say that at our basic level we are just animals and this seems to upset some people. I think my mum thought I was making excuses for people's behaviour, because we are intelligent enough to overcome animalistic tendencies. Which is exactly my point. We need to be humble enough to recognise that we are not automatically superior in order to be able to correct harmful behaviours. Also, recognising where and why those behaviours have served us in our survival and evolution can help us to change them.
Humilty as a weapon
I may be going out on a different tangent to what you're thinking here, but oh gosh, these past few years have been an eye opener in this regard! I've been amazed at just how many people have been honing it as a weapon. It's like they've been having master classes in gaslighting!!
I agree - I think there are collective seasons that we experience together that stir up similar feelings and movements all over the world. It's no surprise, i suppose! LOL We all just experienced something together as an entire globe at the same time... and that hasn't happend since 100 years prior?? 75? Not many in this generation had experienced something like that in their entire lifetimes.
But yes, we are longing for that pendulum to swing back - I think. hehehe
As far as superiority - I agree. I don't think it necessarily stems from wanting to be better than someone? I think it more stems from "I'm not as bad as this person." or "My situation isn't as bad as that person."
That comparison that you brought up - is more like... if someone is worse off than me - then, maybe I'm not so bad.
And then it's a slippery slope, isn't it LOL Because then we like feeling like we're not so bad and want to find others, and then we ARE feeling superior. We don't handle balance very well as human beings, do we? lol
I m ean... why doesn't our mind go to..."hey this person is doing worse than me, let me help lift them up to me."
right? LOL Well - I think that's going to be the goal of october. part of it anyway. look at that - i might have a part 3 brewing now. hahaha
Thanks for coming and talking and sharing. I love comment sections for this reason!!! it's where the real connection and interaction happens!!! :)
We really don't do we! We seem to prefer gravitating towards extremes. Life is simpler if there is only right or wrong, left or right. It gets to murky and hard to acknowledge all the other nuances.