I'm sure it is a life long process. No one is born a good father and even if the children are grown and leave the nest the father role should continue. My father changed a lot from the Hulk to David Banner. I know I changed too and I see him today as gentle and thoughtful. He always surprises me. My own son has many good role models around him but he has to be strong inside and recognize who he really is and stand by it. I do hope he will make a great father.