Sometimes all we need is to go sit some where out of the reach of friends or family, Not necessarily because we have no one to talk to, but because that space help our minds to wander into our beautiful fantasies when we are sitting next to on one.
In my case, a Mango tree at the back of our house do provide that perfect venue where I sit and ruminate over beautiful memories , void of the distraction from others. This state help one to keep focus, and sometimes help one make proper plans for the future.
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Some people mistake such moment as a moment of sadness, while the opposite is the case. This habit is common with introverts. No wonder they are called thinkers.
This moment could be enjoyed while walking in a foot path , picking stones and throwing them at no one while talking to yourself. Some times you ask yourself questions and give yourself answers to your questions. That is the beauty of being away from the distraction of others, as it gives you Chance to reflect , and to be truthful to yourself over some decisions you have made. A quiet environment is all that is needed.
If not any other thing, having a silent time to yourself will always bring you respect. I do have a friend that will always try to create a conversation with people even when they don’t want to, he always finds it difficult to resist explanations. It got to an extent, people started to shun him off when he speaks.
On the other hand I do have a departmental mate that really speaks, when ever he opens his mouth to talk, everyone keeps quiet knowing that he only speaks when there is something very important to pass across.
I am not saying that it is bad to free up with people, what I am saying is everything has limits in life, one must learn where and when to talk or to stay alone. It’s called discipline
I like being alone as well. I can never mistake that moment for moments of sadness. It is where thoughts are moulded and arranged.
Every reflective person loves such moment.
I have my spot as well
Wow this a thoughtful thinking is just like a journey of life you have to create it for your self