Mind hack:
Make the pointed use to avoid forever , using the word 'should' in construction of sentences.
After six months, notice how your mindset has altered. (all in good ways).
THE most powerful psychological trick that I've ever done....simple, but quite amazing.
....See you on other side (if you dare to give it a go !.. .lol).
You're very, very, welcome.
Thank you. I should try that. I have found I have decided to change phrases like "you should...." into "I will..." and then do them and this way it doesn't sound like I'm bossing people. Obviously, I can convince myself easier than anyone else of things. Those who wish to take inspiration from it may.
...it's not about convincing anyone else, about anything - it's about re routing your own neural pathways..