You sure had a nice time at the church service. That's how it ought to be. In the house of the Lord there is fullness of Joy. Couldn't make it to the physical church but did well to fellow from home in the spirit. Always a great especially when the spirit leads in the ministration and all.
Indeed forgiveness is more than just uttering words it is all about letting go of certain hurt despite how difficult it usually seem to be. We sometime lack the ability to forgive the reason we must seek the spirit help to let us go of the past and feeling that comes it with hurt. That is we always have the abiding Holy Spirit to us at all times. He is our ever present help. Little wonder he termed as our helper and comforter.
The concept of restitution is sometime a difficult one has certain things seem very inconvenient for us to do in certain situations. I believe the restitution is all about feeling peace with ourselves. We sometimes feel guilt and feel the need to apologize or restitute for those sin we have committed in the past. Not all restitution involves going to apologize to the individual some involves doing good in certain areas to get rid of the good.
For example, someone who committed adultery with someone else wife, I don't think the restitution here involves talking to the husband about this has this could end badly for the person and for the marriage of the other person. I feel this kind is between you and God by making things right in one way or the other.