Breaks up indeed can be really devastating. They can shake anyone to the root of your foundation no matter peaceable they happen. Growing apart from someone you were once in love with is not an easy thing no matter how tough we try to appear.

Some how breakups are however important. As without someone we never know how strong we can be. We sometimes catch feelings for the wrong person and this blinds is from seeing the realities of were the relationship is heading til it's over.

In the end every failed relationship helps to better and more prepared for the next one to come. We are not perfect being but we seem to master certain things we more experience. Every cracks reveals our scars and make very careful of repeating certain mistakes.

In my short life here on earth, I have discovered that there is no quick way of getting over a break up. Only time and more love can heal the soul from several heart breaks.