This question is bothering me for a very long time and I decided to ask here.
My question is
'How can I gain confidence to do something '
For example to teach,or to dribble in a football field,or to toast a girl you like😋,and many more.
How can I be confident
you can gain confidence by telling yourself that you can do it always give yourself back that since others are doing this you too can do it and you will be successful.
Stop looking down on yourself or condemning yourself that you cannot do it.
Always practice when you are in your privates closet and gradually you will be bored or gain your confidence.
Never allow anybody to discourage you that you cannot do it or you cannot achieve all those things, always focus ,never get distracted.
And finally you can engage yourself in some books how to gain confidence and you will be reading them and you will know how to gain confidence.
I will try all of these things.
But I have been whispering to myself that I can do it but when it's time to do something I won't be able to do it.
I won't be discouraged anymore and I will start reading books on it
First of all how old are you? To me I feel everything in life come wt step,so with the step you ar going to conquer whatever come your way at that moment,
Indeed everything in life is a process. I believe the young man is still in his teenage or youthful age hence he still faces some fears. I believe he can also get more skillful or better at craft by first doing the first step , that is stepping out from the shadows and fears then walking through to self realization and development. Been in the box or allowing the fear to grow will only put in state that will stop him from gaining enough confidence
Which much steps, practice and navigation towards and out of the fears then will actually be able to conquer his greatest fears. We must be willing to stop fear from dominating our mind by facing it heads on. I believe that is the best way to overcome it and become much more confident in whatever we do.
You can gain confidence by simply believing in your own ability to do the thing you wants to do.
Let go of any self doubts and just do it , you will be amaze about the things you can Accomplish.
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How can someone believe in his ability to do things he wants to do?
How can how can someone overcome fear
Good question. There is only one way to gather confidence and that is by believe in your abilities. And how does one do this is, it is by constantly reassuring yourself of your potential that you can do something has long as others too can. Self believe is very great first step in achieving that.
Secondly you have to stop looking down on yourself by building your self esteem. Our esteem is everything has it has a way of reflecting in our outlook and confidence level. Sometimes it is best to hype yourself will your work towards achieving that state of been high-minded and confident in all of your abilities.
You shouldn't also allow yourself to be discouraged by other people. What Other people say about you shouldn't matter much. The opinion only give us reasons to improve. We shouldn't allow it to weigh us down. The more you set to better yourself all round, the more you fears to certain things dies. We seek to always trample on our fears has that is the limitation to us failing to achieving confidence.
Lastly in whatever area of interest you wish you to better yourself, you ought to constantly practice has there is no other way to well confident in something until you master it thoroughly. Little wonder it is said, practice makes perfect. Achieving the state of been too good at what you do takes away the fear. For teaching and that of football, or asking a girl out, you can always the first step trying out by doing it indoors or low crowded place with friends.