It's still a mystery to me how it all happened, I'm trying to figure if I was hypnotized that I gave up the virginity I have kept for years to a stranger on our first date.
It started 3weeks ago that I decided to give myself a treat, I ordered a Uber taxi to take me down to ShopRite ikeja for shopping.
On alighting from the car at the park and approaching the entry of the ShopRite mall, I noticed this young man closely behind me, but I felt he is also going his own way.
I continued to the place where I did my shopping, not long after the guy came in and offered to settle my bills and I rejected outrightly since I do not know him, he insisted on settling the bill and we are already attracting so much attention from people so I gave up and allow him make the payment.
He wouldn't leave me alone thereafter and he kept going with me everywhere so I discontinued on shopping in order to avoid further embarrassment and attracting unnecessary attention.
He asked for my telephone number but I refused to give him, then he also promised he's never going to get off behind me without giving him my number.
After wasting some minute walking around in the mall maybe he was going to get tired and go his way, but all to no avail so I decided to visit an eatery since I was famished.
He also came with me and we both had lunch, at the point of making payment I met a course mate Steven from the polytechnic, as we both shared complement it came as a surprise when I heard Steven called Brother Isaac facing the guy going about with me.
It was at that point I knew that Steven is a friend to the kid brother of Isaac the guy pestering me. After so much gist Isaac offered to give me a ride home but I refused so he ordered a cab and I left them.
Since then Isaac gives me a call on a regular basis to know if I am doing well, factually Isaac isn't a bad looking guy. It was during our conversation one night I discovered that Isaac is a close associate to one of the top politician in Lagos and that made me feel he would use his influence to help me get a good job.
On Monday last week he offered to take me out on weekend which was yesterday. He came to pick me up around 10am, took me to the cinema to see the movie "Fast n Furious", then went to the beach. All aspect of the outing was full of fun. It was the first time I ever tasted alcohol as he lured me into taking it.
The last thing I knew was that I took alcohol and when I gained my conciousness I found myself defiled on a bed in an hotel room. It was then I noticed this pain in my Virginia, I checked and saw blood all over my body.
As I was weeping, Isaac started pleading and said he never knew I was a virgin. It wouldn't have been a big deal if I really loved Isaac but unfortunately I do not love him since he smokes and get involved in other things I detest so much.
I felt so disappointed and ashamed of myself as I have fallen so cheap and broken the promise I made to keep myself till my wedding night.
I doubt if I can ever forgive myself for trusting a guy i know not much about.
He's been calling since last night but I don't ever want to talk to him because he is such a wicked and mean guy
Men are such a wicked being..........
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This story sounds like a fiction...but if it is non-fiction,i am sorry to hear that,and i believe you will overcome whatever challenges or issues...
Is this fictional? Or is it something that really happened?
A real life event
Wow, must be really sad because you didn't plan it and all. Really messed up if he really took advantage of your being under alcoholic influence. Hope you're alright and taken care of yourself, visited a doctor or something?
Lastly, don't put the blame on every man.
I'm really sorry about the whole event. You have a good case if you wish to press charges. There are establishments that will take up your case pro bono if you decide to press charges against him. Take your time in taking decision as this might be very important in the nearest future.
If it's a true story. I would tell you to go to the police. After all, you don't remember what happened... You may have been raped. It's a very serious story... I think you should talk to a psychologist.
Quite a sad story and a bad way lose your virginity. So sorry you had to go through such wickedness. Don't let it slide. I'd advise you report to the appropriate authorities to get justice on this one. There is no excuse for perpetrating such act
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