Some will say it was easy, others will say it was luck... but the fact is that only those who went through the same process understand the pain of others.
Wise word from you, u might not know how to explain thing better if you have not be in the same shoe.. That is the most reason why you can't just conclude to something because u might not knows the pains that people are facing
Yes... we don't know the pain of the other, so we must let go and have empathy for our neighbor.