I think the mistakes a lots of people makes is comparing their journey in this life and succcess to others, we all have our journey with diffrents time line, judging ourselfs with success of others is just pathetic and unfair to ourselves.
We need to trust our own process, do our best and grow at our own space.
There is no way to compare to the other, as each one follows a different journey, and the process that each goes through is different and different.