Question.
Do you hide your success from jealous people in your life?
Do you prefer to show off in front of them or avoid doing that?
How do you handle jealous people?
Question.
Do you hide your success from jealous people in your life?
Do you prefer to show off in front of them or avoid doing that?
How do you handle jealous people?
An honest answer would not be appreciated, haha. Because it's something we should not do.
But I would be honest assuming no one would judge me here like the aunties :P
So I like to share my success with people I love because when they appreciate me and talk good of me, I feel motivated and more enthusiastic and it's a happy feeling in general. So I share with them.
But then, definately, there are those who will never be happy to see you happy and will feel jealous. So if I know there's someone in my life who would feel that way and I don't like that someones, I would definaltely boast my success in front of them to show off and make them feel jealous. They would anyways come to know about it and then they would end up feeling jealous and irritated; so I would rather take that initiative.
While I do know that this is something wrong, I should not do it because it makes me a bad person and will end up hurting me sometime, in a way that if I keep thinking about those thing they did to hurt me and make me feel bad, I will never be able to forget and end up feeling bad. But still I do it. After all I'm not perfect, no one is. There are some shortcomings in me which I must work on and this is one of them.
Personally , i like to share my success to the people in my life so they can rejoice with me.
However if i know someone is a jealous type, i will rather keep my success to my self showing it of to them will be a total waste of time and energy.
I share my success with people that genuinely support me and want me to succeed. I hide it from everyone else because they either don't care or will be jealous and I don't care for any of that
Well, Mostly I share my success only with my close group. So whether other people are jealous or not they still may not know. If I notice a person is jealous of me, I just avoid them and anything that concerns them completely.
I'm not one to share myself success with everyone or put it in the face of people who are jealous of mine. In the case I decide to let my story known, I will only share to people who I feel or deserve needs to know. Showing off isn't my thing and I really try as much as possible to avoid doing that.
For jealous people, I simply tolerate them. Love is the only way to win them over. While some chose to irritate them further, I simply work on turning them away from that green nature. We shouldn't use evil to repay evil or doing bad thing to bad people, I doesn't and will never work out if we choose to have peace of mind in this world.