Question.
How do you stop feeling awkward among new people and groups when you socialize?
Like say you are in new office or new social area near house and you don't know the people in there.
How do you mix in the group?
Question.
How do you stop feeling awkward among new people and groups when you socialize?
Like say you are in new office or new social area near house and you don't know the people in there.
How do you mix in the group?
To my own experience so far in life for some to stop been awkward among new people in group when you socialise ,first of all make
1 be positive
2 avoid gossiping
3 focus on your EL
4 create a good relationship
5 appreciate others,
With all this listed above the word awkward will never be ur potion.
Very nice question...
Some months ago when I got my job, I was thinking how I will cope or relate with the new people and environment, it was really giving me sleepless nights as the resumption date was fast approaching...
You should know that a new group of people and environment contains various personalities and traits and you can hardly find the one which will match yours...
After some days, I resumed and after some little introduction, some faces I saw were not encouraging, the way they greeted me and talked to me wasn't really encouraging while some did well...
What I did that helped me?
During the introduction, some smiled and hugged me while some Judy gave the normal welcome statement, as time goes on I started coming closer to the one that smiled that day, because I know I will find it easy communicating with them.. It worked for me and I was free to others and started feeling nice around them..
To summarise everything, the best way to stop feeling awkward is to find even if it's just a person that you know you can talk to, there must be one who will fit your personality and who will want to come close to you.. Use the person to get others, that was exactly what I did
..
I don't know if it will work for you but try
It takes a while for me but I give myself the time needed to feel comfortable around a new group and when I can't I do no force it.