the ugly and beautiful side of love// o lado feio e bonito do amor.

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Written in English and Portuguese// Escrito em inglês e português


Hi guys!
Today I came to talk about love.

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There are two types of love, the ugly and the beautiful. Ugly love hurts, hurts, is often unrequited. It's that love that instead of lifting you, it pulls you down and you look up and think, how you wish you were up there. But you're not, ugly love consumes you, becomes you, makes you hate everything, makes you think the pretty parts aren't worth it, makes you give up, don't want to love again, because any kind of love will never be worth it worth going through the ugly again.
On the other hand, the beautiful side is lighter, it makes you feel floating, it lifts you, carries you. He holds you so high above all the bad stuff, you just look at the rest and think, wow, I'm so happy to be up here. This love is affection, affection, respect, connection, but above all, it is care. It is always wanting to take care of the other, seeing the person above everything and everyone. It's what makes you thank you every day for experiencing it, it's what makes you feel alive.

Thanks for reading and for voting!!!

Source: Book "The Ugly Side of Love", Colleen Hoover.


Português


Oii galera!
Hoje vim falar sobre o amor.

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Existem dois tipos de amor, o feio e o bonito. O amor feio dói, machuca, muitas vezes não é correspondido. É aquele amor que invés de te erguer, ele te puxa pra baixo e você olha pra cima e pensa, como queria estar lá em cima. Mas você não está, o amor feio a consome, se torna você, faz você odiar tudo, faz pensar que as partes bonitas não valem a pena, faz com que você desista, não queira amar de novo, porque nenhum tipo de amor nunca valerá a pena passar pelo feio de novo.
Já o lado bonito é mais leve, te faz se sentir flutuando, ele levanta você, carrega você. Ele te segura tão alto sobre todas as coisas ruins, que você só olha pro resto e pensa, uau, eu sou tão feliz por estar aqui em cima. Esse amor é carinho, é afeto, respeito, conexão, mas acima de tudo, é cuidado. É sempre querer cuidar do outro, ver a pessoa acima de tudo e de todos. É o que te faz agradecer todo dia por vivenciá-lo, é o que te faz se sentir viva.

Obrigada por lerem e pelo voto!!!

Fonte: Livro "O lado feio do amor", Colleen Hoover.


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From my perspective love is beautiful and the feeling is so amazing to anyone that knows the value and important of love.i encourage everyone to give love a chance and allowe its condiments to function well.


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Hi, I totally agree with your perspective!

Everyone want the beautiful love but most get the ugly one...

You can hardly find beautiful love nowadays, a kinda love where you don't get to feel pain or hurt, where you don't get to complain or regret...

Most lovers try to build themselves but neglecting many deeds so as to keep love growing, many sacrifices are being made in order to avoid problems...

This love is affection, affection, respect, connection, but above all, it is care. It is always wanting to take care of the other, seeing the person above everything and everyone. It's what makes you thank you every day for experiencing it, it's what makes you feel alive.

The beautiful side of love is what we all ask love, a love that consist the aforementioned, if only we could get that...
getting beautiful love now is like hell, talking from experience and I haven't seen till date...


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Hi, I hope you find that kind of love! Fortunately I found a beautiful love, of course nothing is perfect and there can be some silly fights, but nothing stronger than love. Again, I really hope you find one day, just don't give up, I hope you find your happiness!

Thanks so much for the encouragement, I hope to find one soon.. I have been hurt a lot of times and its even making scared of trying...

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Don't be afraid to try, you'll find it when you least expect it, let me know when you find it ;)

I won't fail to let you know, thank you so much...


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Olha! Mais uma brasileira por aqui! Isso é muito bom!

Acabei de ver você agora por aqui. E quero te dar uma dica muito importante.

Evite usar a TAG LEOFINANCE quando o assunto não tiver nada relacionado com finanças em nenhuma parte. A comunidade POB no caso é aberto para todo e qualquer conteúdo, mas algumas tribos são mais para o assunto delas e eles não vão gostar muito de ver conteúdos que não pertencem ao assunto.

De resto, continue a escrever sempre, vi que você gosta e isso é a melhor forma de crescer aqui dentro! Apenas foque o conteúdo certo nas tribos certos e sucesso ;)

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Oii, muito obrigada pela dica, pode deixar que só irei usa lá em assunto de finanças. Obrigada novamente pela dica, e sucesso pra você também! 🥰

Both the ugly and beautiful love gives us diferent feelingd of memoeies. It can be a pleasant one or an uncomfortable experience. But none the less, love is still a beutiful thing. And we have to feel it atimes. Your perspective about love is very right and reasonable. More wisdom and knowledge to you


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Thank you! I totally agree with your perspective, it's a beautiful feeling to live, all success and happiness for you too!